Here we are again, the time of the year that we associate with gift giving. For most of us, it involves some sense of stress because of all the shopping and trying to guess what we can give to others within the limits of our budgets. This can be even more stressful for kids, even though some of you have side jobs and allowances your main jobs (being students) are non-paying. Consider giving what others want from you most – your time. Author and pastor Rick Warren said, "Time is your most precious gift because you only have a set amount of it. You can make more money, but you can't make more time. When you give someone your time, you are giving them a portion of your life that you'll never get back." This holiday season, spend time with your loved ones. I guarantee you will be giving them a gift that they will recognize as priceless.
A Scout is Kind.
Tuesday, December 19, 2023
Tuesday, December 12, 2023
Scoutmaster Minute -- 12 December 2023
There was a meme a while back that said something to the effect of "if you were to kill someone, not only would I not tell, but I would help you bury the body." In a joking sense, this speaks to the lengths one would go to support a close friend. Unfortunately, this time of followership is sometimes not far from the mark and prisons are full of people who showed misplaced or blind loyalty and served as accomplices or accessories to crimes. Sometimes it is more subtle. Sometimes friends stand by and watch friends or loved ones continue down a path of self-destruction.
True loyalty is sometimes tough. It is telling the friend not what he or she wants to hear, but what he or she needs to hear. It can be awkward, for example, "hey, you should go to the restroom and clean your nose." Yet the receiver of such feedback would much rather hearing it from a friend than walk around all day and be the subject of ridicule. This is a simple example, but it could be applied to drug use, bullying, or any other self-destructive behavior.
True loyalty is not supporting one's friend to be at his or her worst, it is helping the friend to realize his or her best self.
A Scout is Loyal.
True loyalty is sometimes tough. It is telling the friend not what he or she wants to hear, but what he or she needs to hear. It can be awkward, for example, "hey, you should go to the restroom and clean your nose." Yet the receiver of such feedback would much rather hearing it from a friend than walk around all day and be the subject of ridicule. This is a simple example, but it could be applied to drug use, bullying, or any other self-destructive behavior.
True loyalty is not supporting one's friend to be at his or her worst, it is helping the friend to realize his or her best self.
A Scout is Loyal.
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